advice on career continuation

[Stan9411]

that then I have the perception that most of those who come here with this kind of questions do it more as vent than as real search for advice.

expect more a “how much I understand you! I’ve been in the same shit myself” rather than a “me didn’t happen but I’d be like that in you”. This last sentence represents more or less 90% of the answers we give. and in my memory there was never one who returned after two months saying “I listened to Massivonweizen’s advice and solved my situation”.

so it goes by itself that a manual already wrapped up with answers to every possible hypothetical question, in my opinion, would not have much success.

on the other hand I have always hated the motivational books in which they try to explain how to live better.. so I could be prevented

 

[MassiVonWeizen]

that then I have the perception that most of those who come here with this kind of questions do it more as vent than as real search for advice

if you consider it @e2350b He opened another identical discussion, now eliminated, and for his own admission he did it without having first checked if he had received answers to this (his first and only discussion, it is not that he had to control 150...) we get the idea of pressappochism and facilonery in addressing issues.

 

[IronMike87]

both the bulletin board and the vademecum must be found and especially read and then "he's my lady, but mine is a particular case and then it is so worth opening a specific discussion. . . "
beautiful idea, but I am pessimistic about the ability of others of his fruition

Let's understand, I'm very pessimistic too... but a post that is beautiful up there, maybe even with title all in capital Surely it is visible, and maybe you can call someone to click.

the search function knows that we only use it "old" that we have grown up with the real forums and few others.

 

[MassiVonWeizen]

Unfortunately, people only see and read what they want to see and read.
I would like to have statistics of how many new members read the regulation that is now on the front page.
however definitely bad does not do, indeed an extra excuse to pull hulls